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My Mother …

Born in Waterville, Maine

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Raised on Martha’s Vineyard

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my mother and grandmother – Oak Bluffs 1924

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Married a Jersey boy…

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and had a Jersey girl (me)…

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The next to the last Mother’s Day I spent with my mom was May 1975. My parents were vacationing on the Cape and she was unaware that we were driving up to surprise her for the weekend. I gave her the book ‘Mostly On Martha’s Vineyard, A Personal Record’ by Henry Beetle Hough, as I knew she’d know some of the people mentioned in the book. I am so glad I did that because after reading the book she decided she wanted to sail over to the Vineyard to visit her mother’s grave. It turned out be her last trip to her beloved Vineyard.

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Posts about my mom:

‘Grandma’ – a beautiful post by my daughter Deb

‘Spirits’ – a ghost story

‘Lost Ring Story’

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Flying Horses …

The Flying Horses

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The Flying Horses, the oldest carousel in the United States, are housed in this building at the intersection of Circuit and Lake Aves in Oak Bluffs. They came to the Island in 1884 from Coney Island.

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The Flying Horses are not a carousel, or a merry-go-round, they don’t go up and down just round and round. They are flying horses, like Pegasus, and fly to wherever you can imagine . They don’t actually have wings, but as you make the first circuit you feel like you’re about to fly out the open windows.

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Whoosh….

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Look closely at the horse’s eyes, inside each one is a tiny hand carved animal.

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(My picture didn’t capture the animal in the eye so I cheated just a little)

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I flew on these beautiful horses every day when I was a little girl.

The ticket taker was a young man who would never take my tickets ! We tried everything to get him to take them… we brought him candy and cookies and tried slipping the tickets in with them… nothing work. At the end of the summer I said I wanted to buy him a gift, so off my mom and I went to purchase what I thought was a novel idea .. a tie. I was 5 years old, what did I know about buying gifts for men… he, by the way was about 13 but in my eyes he was a grown up. We put the tie in the box with all of summer’s uncollected tickets. As he came around to NOT collect my ticket I handed him the box. He smiled. Ah ha, success… or so I thought. As we were leaving the Flying Horses he came over and thanked us for the tie and as we turned to leave he handed us the tickets. I won’t say who he is, just that he turned out to be an official in Oak Bluffs in later years… and someone I’ve never forgotten.

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Our Dogs On MV …

This is Katy (Katama) our Boykin Spaniel in 2000, she was our first dog to go to Martha’s Vineyard… actually our first dog to ever go on a vacation with us. Here she is on the Islander looking happy and eager to get on with her adventures.

She enjoyed her first dip in the ocean… running and barking and trying to catch an elusive wave or two.

At Katama/South Beach, the place she was named for she was a little unsure of the waves so she mostly romped along side of them.

A quiet morning at Edgartown lighthouse was nice after going to the beach, shopping and meeting people. Unfortunately it was Katy’s one and only trip to MV… a year later she was hit by a car and died at only 20 months old.

Did you ever see such beautiful yellow eyes. She was a sweetheart and we miss her and love her.

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And then along came…

Chappy (Chappaquiddick) our second Boykin Spaniel and our first boy dog. His first vacation in 2002,  at age 10 months was of course to MV, and he of course also loves the beach…

…and Sengekontacket pond which is a little calmer then the ocean.

Relaxing at Vineyard Haven harbor is fun too… watching the ferries arriving and leaving and sometimes meeting an Island dog to chat with. This by the way is his mom Deb’s favorite picture of him.

Ocean Park in Oak Bluffs is always a nice place to spend time.

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Chappy had to visit the place he was named after too so here he is with Deb on Chappaquiddick.

Two of the places that accept pets are  Bradys NESW and The Island Inn, and they’re great place to stay with or without your pet.

Chappy’s been known to visit my blog from time to time… here are a couple of his posts:  click on the links to enjoy them.

“Chappy Visits MV”

     “Vacationing With Pets”


Maude Louise …

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To find out who this little girl is please CLICK HERE

- by Joan -


To My Mom …

Today would be my mother’s birthday.

Maude Louise Littlefield Freeman

born March 11, 1907 in Waterville, Maine

She’s the reason MV is in the lives of my family. Although born in Maine she was raised on MV and through her we’ve all come to love the Vineyard.

Her father died when she was 3 years old, her mother remarried and that husband died when my mother was around six.  At that point my grandmother, Albra Mae met and married a Vineyarder named Arthur Baird, Sr and so my grandmother and my mother Maude came to live on Martha’s Vineyard in Oak Bluffs  and thus began our connection to, and love of the Vineyard.

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After my mother graduated from high school she moved to New Jersey and..

married a Jersey boy…. and had a Jersey girl :)

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My first trip to the Vineyard was when I was less than a year old…  here I am on the beach in Oak Bluffs with my mother and godmother…

My entire family has been to MV with me at one time or another but never all of us at the same time. That’s okay though as the Vineyard is a different experience depending on who I’m there with.

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I hope she knows how grateful we all are to her for the gift of the Vineyard she gave to us…. thank you Mom

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Although I’ve tried to say how deeply I feel about my mother and the Vineyard, no words I could find could say so beautifully what my daughter Deb wrote below about her grandmother.

Please take a moment to CLICK HERE and read Deb’s post.


Daily Prompt: Surreal …

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To find out why I think this is surreal please CLICK HERE

- by Joan -


Works in progress

I have been letting far too much time go by between posts, but I never feel like I should share stuff when it's less than halfway done, you know? But today I am bucking that trend and sharing three unfinished projects at once. Three! Can you even stand the excitement right now? Yeah, I didn't think so.

First up is something I have hated for a long time: our carpeted stairs.

In fact, I hated them so much, I apparently did not include them in photos unless I had no choice, so incidentally modeling several of the stairs in this shot from last summer are Ethan and his first marionette, Zucchini Man,

Ethan and Zucchini Man, posing on the carpet that was

And the whole staircase, newly without carpet (but with a fresh coat of paint on the risers),

nekkid!

Lydia, doing her best Vanna, wanted us to see every luxurious, shaggy detail in this months-old photo,

Lydia Vannas us the luxurious, shaggy texture

And now mercifully bare, you can see where there was once a runner down the center, but that will be easy enough to even out (I'm waiting for Spring though, so I don't poison us all with varnish fumes).

needs the color evened out, but still pretty nice!

So that's one unfinished project. You should have SEEN the dust under the padding. Horrifying. So glad it's gone.

Next up is the dining room I've never been happy with. When we bought the house four years ago, the dining room was a really interesting combination of avocado green on top, and sage green on the bottom, as seen in the before part of this "old" before&after thinger:

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The colors looked nice after that, even though pinky curtains aren't really my thing...

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But the sage green is also the color of the entire living room, and it seemed sort of redundant to have it in two rooms right next to each other. So when I scored some exciting red paint on super clearance on a rare trip to a certain W word store, I was beyond thrilled!

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It actually looked really nice at first,

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And when I was able to afford new curtains, it looked even nicer,

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... in photos. In real life, it was dark and small, and the red paint got this weird faded look/possible film on it in places, and the upper half of the walls always had a greenish cast to them, as if the avocado was peeking through. CRAZY MAKING, especially sitting in there in the evenings in the artificial light, but I couldn't bring myself to paint again so soon, you know?

Until recently, when inspiration (and free white paint) struck, and my hand was forced,

repainting the dining room, yet again

After three freaking coats of primer and two coats of actual white wall paint (all on the bottom half), the weirdo red was gone for good. Then the yellow began to transform the top. I was scared, because yellow paint sometimes can be so awful and go so very wrong(scroll down for the yellow story), but hey, guess what? It turned out beautifully, and is exactly what we were going for.

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I have since hung the curtains and some of the stuff is back on the walls, but I still have some putting away to do and finished pictures to take. But we are very happy with it. Much warmer and cozier, and no longer so dark and dingy looking.

NOW THEN. That project inspired the next thing I am going to share, because while this is something I have wanted to make for a long time, it probably would not have been started today had I not glanced at a bare part of the dining room wall and had an "Aha!" moment.

DIY silhouette bandwagon, I am on you!

Ethan:

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ethan silhouette
Noah:

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I should perhaps pause here to explain that Lydia's picture (next up) is a composite of three images, simply because she is 19 months old and incapable of sitting still long enough for my increasingly slow camera to capture her correctly. It looks creepy like this, but it looked creepier with my severed fingers all over her neck and head, trust me on that one.

lydia (composite)

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And because it is always interesting to compare the appearances of siblings and search for similarities, here they are together:

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As soon as I have the money for three 11 x 14 black frames probably matted to 8 x 10 openings (unless I change my mind at some point), I plan on having these digital templates printed and having a go at cutting. I hope I can make it through all three kids without losing patience. I am not, uh, the best at paper cutting, so we'll see how it goes... But if I succeed, they will be framed individually and hung side by side in the dining room, and I can't wait!

But because I can't ever do anything nice and leave it that way, here is the silhouette I've done of myself.

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I can't wait to hang this one up somewhere special.


Baking Christmas Cookies …

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It’s that time of year… get out the mixing bowl and flour and start baking Christmas cookies.  I am not a baker… I do however appreciate all the work that goes into baking… and especially all the time spent making batches and batches of Christmas cookies.  This year I decided to bake cookies with my granddaughter Tiffany, we’ve never baked together before so it was an experience for both of us.  Tiffany does bake and is quite good at it and without her help I don’t know if I could have done it.

Ok… so here goes…..

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What, you were expecting real baking.. I mean  technically we are baking.

Timer’s set and they’re ready to go in the oven.

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And they’re done…. tah dah… looking good, smell good too.

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And they taste good too.

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This was fun, thank you T.   Maybe next year Christmas cookies from scratch !

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Boxes For The Tree …

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T’was Christmas morning and all through the house,

Everyone was stirring, even the mouse,

Lots of smiles, joy and merriment,

And of course a new ornament.

Patty opened her box and Deb’s turn was next,

The look on her face was very perplexed !

The box was empty, no ornament inside…

I felt terrible and almost cried.

Deb rose to her feet and headed to the

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And hung the empty box where the ornament should be.

The following year I searched all around,

A perfect ornament for Deb must be found,

It was, it was just meant to be,

A box ornament for our Christmas tree.

We hang them each year and remember with glee,

How an empty box (filled with love) came to decorate

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Family Santa …

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My dad was a police officer in Newark, NJ.  For many of his years on the force he worked in the Emergency Squad division.  During the long hours between calls the guys would keep themselves busy in various ways like cooking.  Near the Christmas holidays they always came up with a special project, like candle making for instance.

In 1956 they made Santas.  I still have ours.  Santa stands about 3 and 1/2 feet tall and is made from press board. After the outline was drawn the guys cut out the Santas and my dad set to work drawing the features, clothing and bag of toys.  At that point our Santa came home and my mother and I painted him.  I’m not sure how many coats of paint we used but Santa was spread out on our kitchen table for about a week before he was completely dry.  I don’t know what kind of paint we used either but here it is 57 years later and he’s not chipped or faded.  This was the only time I ever remember the three of us doing a family project together.

I love everything about this Santa, even the buttons being on the wrong side… but the thing I love the most is that he looks like my dad… a self portrait so to speak.

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Below is my daughter Patty age 2 and 1/2 in 1966…

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… and her daughter (my granddaughter) Tiffany age 2 and 1/2 in 1991.

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Here’s to Christmas memories :)