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It’s Chappy …

Hi, it’s Chappy.  I haven’t visited gram’s blog in awhile and since today is my 11th birthday she invited me to write a post.   Here goes.

This is where it all began… me with my brothers and one sister all smooshed up against our dog mom Tawny.

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This is mom and dad… Tawny and Buddy.  I’ve been told I look more like my mom and have her sweet disposition…but I’ve got some of dad’s sense of fun in me too.

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This is my mom, Deb.  Oops, I’m skipping ahead here, I wanted to tell you about our first day together.  Well , not all of it, some of it was traumatic but that’s for another post someday.

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After I said goodbye to Tawny and Buddy we began our long trek across Pennsylvania to New Jersey.  You can see I was already in the driver’s seat.

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I caused quite a ruckus when we stopped at McDonald’s for lunch.  I had no idea I was so cute and I certainly had no idea what wonderful smells and tastes were out in the world.  Talk about excitement, I actually stayed awake for awhile.

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Finally after days on the road, well it seemed like days to me, what did I know about cars and roads and big noisy trucks that kept waking me up.  Mom says it was more like 6 hours… in puppy time that IS days.   Good thing I was so rested ’cause when we got home look at all the toys waiting for me… I couldn’t believe it.  The six of us siblings had one toy and one tennis ball to play with, I was in toy heaven.100_1766100_1764
Just look at me… sweet, adorable, just a hint of mischief in my eyes.  Yup, I picked the absolute  best mom and family in the world. But enough of the mushy stuff.

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The pictures below weren’t my idea…  gram snuck them on here when I wasn’t looking.  Really, I have no idea how they got here but go ahead and enjoy them… I like the ones of me with mom the best.  Okay, bye for now, Chappy signing off :)

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(To enjoy Chappy’s other posts click HERE and HERE )

Happy 11th birthday Chappy :)


Joe Cool

Kimball Art Museum Steven's Garden and Grill

Yesterday we had a great lunch at Joe T. Garcia’s and then spent some time at the Kimbell Art Museum. We also had some excellent BBQ for dinner at Steven’s Garden and Grill.

Growth (mostly)


roses!

Super Marzano

SO SWEET!!!

Garden first! Some hot, hot days were just what my tomatoes wanted, because they really sprung up there since they were planted.

June 11th:

Opalkas planted

June 22nd:

tomatoes

June 11th:

Super Marzanos planted

June 22nd:

Super Marzanos

Somewhat impressive, but the best is the herb section.

June 11th:

herbs

June 22nd:

herbs

Go, guys, go!

Sad thing. I had to cut back all the grapes. They all did this weird rotting thing last year, and it started again this year, so I looked it up. Black rot. Instead of watching them slowly rot on the vines, I killed them in cold blood.

dying grapes

dying grapes

I figure it is all my fault for not planting them in their ideal conditions, so now I have made a new space for them and will transplant and treat whenever I get the chance. I'm leaving the dead vines on the ladder arbor for looks and will plant some morning glories there instead. So it all works out. But it doesn't make me feel any better for what I did...


Unrelated, and much happier: Noah turned FOUR on the 13th, and we celebrated with a little miniature golf.

action!

mom and Liddy take a turn

Here's the birthday boy getting a little help from dad:

there you go, birthday boy

Still seems like it was just yesterday I was popping on to post this. Now, not only is he fours years old, but we have another one, and she's growing just as fast as her brothers:

1) Oh hey I am so strong!

2) Yeah?

She'll be six weeks old on Wednesday. Unbelievable!

And finally, I will leave you with some pictures of the particularly impressive sunset from a few nights ago.

another gorgeous sunset

another gorgeous sunset

Shawl-along (and gratuitous baby pictures)

Against my better judgement, I joined a knit-along the other day.

with feet like these, who needs a yarn bowl?

My time is somewhat limited at the moment, and I don't often have both hands free for long, but when I do, I definitely need things to do that keep me resting. As I'm sure you've all noticed, I have a slight tendency to overdo things, and I did just have a baby (two weeks ago today!) and am supposed to be "taking it easy."

So when Evelyn started a Knit-along in the Juniper Moon Farm group on Ravelry, I couldn't resist. The pattern she chose is Amari, part of the JMF "Sabine" pattern book, but also available for free here!

Digging mentally through my yarn stash, I kept coming back to this stuff,

Juniper Moon Farm yarn

which I purchased in person at the farm (in person, I say!!!) during my incredible trek to Fall Shearing last year.

After an agonizing twenty seconds or so of deliberation, I wound up a ball and cast on.

 Juniper Moon Farm's  "Amari"

And I am SO GLAD I did! Look at those colors!!!

Juniper Moon Farm's "Amari"

This yarn could not be any more lovely than it is in this pattern, and both the yarn and the shawl are absolute pleasures to knit.

Juniper Moon Farm's "Amari"

I'm making good progress so far, but I know the more stitches I add, the slower I will go. I hope to actually finish this in a reasonable amount of time anyway. Please? I'd love to wear it this fall...

Amari progress

And because (like any insufferable mother of a new baby) I can't just flippantly mention that Lydia is two weeks old today, here is her little weekly progress picture. Because I can't stop myself.

Two weeks mosaic

Spring into…everything.

I always forget -- until it comes around again -- just how busy I always am in the spring!  This year has seemed even crazier than usual, though, for some reason.  And to think that Ian isn't in school, so we don't even have end-of-the-school-year craziness (or, really, much of anything that is Ian-centered) to add into the mix.  Yet.

So, what HAS been keeping me so busy, and keeping me from writing anything?  My last couple of months, in bullet point form:

Knitting: Is, at the moment, not happening, but since last we spoke I did knit a Wingspan shawl (though mine is more scarf-sized) and I liked it so much that I started another.  And I sold a little bit of yarn from my stash (thanks to people asking nicely on Ravelry!).  That's about all the yarn action that's happened around here.  I didn't go to Maryland Sheep & Wool; I thought about Massachusetts Sheep & Wool this weekend but couldn't work up the motivation.

Reading: I'm still on pace to make my 52-book goal for the year!  I love the Goodreads widget that keeps track of my progress for me.  (As of right now, I'm one book ahead.)  I read a couple of prepub books on my Kindle (thanks, Netgalley!) that I really must review; and Book Expo America is coming up next week!  I won't be lacking for things to read, that's for sure.  Even my husband is getting in on the book review action -- the only difference is that, assuming it meets their specifications, HIS is going to be published in an actual print publication that you've probably even heard of (he's frequently published in places you HAVEN'T heard of).  Ah, the benefits of being practically-a-PhD and Knowing People In Your Field.  

Anyway, right now I am still working on book 2 of the Game of Thrones series -- I had every intention of keeping ahead of the TV show, but that didn't happen.  Oh well.  I let it languish for a while, but over the last couple of days I've been picking up speed on it.  Maybe I'll manage to read Book 3 before Season 3 starts!

Ian: Is TWO.  I know, I can hardly believe it myself.  If I were a better/more organized mother, I would have written a heartfelt birthday post for him, but instead I am a busy mother so it'll have to wait.  I have so much I could write about him; I'll save it for its own post.  But I love that he's now at an age where he is clearly listening and taking things in, to the point where we are even able to reason with him these days (inasmuch as one can reason with a toddler).  I mean, he seems to understand the word "later," which was an amazing breakthrough in our dealings with him.  :-)

Work: Is crazy.  I've been serving on a task force for our library consortium, which has necessitated all kinds of demos and webinars and a lot of driving around to different libraries.  Plus, spring is Conference Season, between the Book Expo and the CT Library Association conference and a few smaller other things.  AND I've been teaching a lot of classes at the library.  Between all the time out of my office and the time I've been devoting to preparing for, and teaching, my classes, I feel like I barely have even touched my "normal" job responsibilities lately!  And now summer reading is upon us...woohoo.

Running:  Yes, you read that right.  Running.  I started up a couch-to-5k program again.  I've started (but never finished) a program multiple times over the last few years; I think the last time was the summer I ended up getting pregnant, and when it got really hot I used that as an excuse to quit.  For whatever reason, I seem to be much more motivated this time around.  Today I did week 4 day 2 (there are eight weeks, 3 days per week) so I'm nearly halfway through the program.  It's starting to get difficult for me...but I guess that if it took four weeks for it to feel like a challenge, that's a good thing. Right?

Family: Our big family news is that my sister Kayte finished her RN!  YAY!  She's been going to school while also juggling multiple jobs, multiple sclerosis, and single-motherhood, so it was a long time coming, but she is finally DONE and she just found out a couple of days ago that she passed her state boards, so it's all official and everything.  I am just so proud of her I could bust.  I even got to go to her graduation: the last time (when she got her LPN) I was just days from delivering Ian, so opted not to drive all the way to New Hampshire for the ceremony.  

Gardening: My perennials all came back (except for, oddly enough, the coneflowers -- I would have thought they'd be pretty indestructible) and have spread well and are just generally doing quite well.  Yesterday I bought some plants and some seeds, and Jim got the vegetable garden all planted.  There are a few more odds and ends we want to add to the vegetable garden, and I'd like to add a few more flowers to the perennial beds, but everything is in good shape for this summer!

I think that's all the big stuff.  You see why I've had no time or inclination to blog!  

You’ll forgive my shoddy blogmanship, I hope…

But things slowed down here in anticipation of the littlest one.

There was Mother's Day on the 13th,

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Mother's Day, 5-13-12

Mother's Day, 5-13-12

Mother's Day, 5-13-12

And the last night with the belly on the 15th,

last night with the belly ♥

see you on the flip side!

and on Wednesday, May 16th, at 11:09 AM, we welcomed one Lydia Fairlee to our family.

fresh baby Lydia

She weighed in at 7lbs, 10.5oz and was 19.5" long.

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Lydia's Birthday - 5/16/12

Lydia's Birthday - 5/16/12

They let us go home the very next day, which was so much appreciated!

Lydia's Homecoming - 5/17/12

Lydia's Homecoming - 5/17/12

oh baby hand, how I love thee

And just like that, this past Wednesday she was a week old already.

one week old

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We are all pretty smitten here. :)

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The Graduate

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We’ve had a string of graduations in the family for the last several years and this week it was my sister’s turn to graduate from nursing school. I know she’s worked very hard and hopefully it won’t be long at all before she can start a satisfying and rewarding career.

My Mom …

Born in Waterville, Maine

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Raised on Martha’s Vineyard

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Married a Jersey boy…

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and had a Jersey girl.

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The next to the last Mother’s Day I spent with my mom was May 1975.  My parents were vacationing on the Cape and she was unaware that we were driving up to surprise her for the weekend.  I gave her the book ‘Mostly On Martha’s Vineyard, A Personal Record’ by Henry Beetle Hough,  as I knew she’d know some of the people mentioned in the book.  I am so glad I did that because after reading the book she decided she wanted to sail over to the Vineyard to visit her mother’s grave.  It turned out be her last trip to her beloved Vineyard.

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Posts about my mom:

‘Grandma’ – a beautiful post by my daughter Deb

‘Spirits’ – a ghost story

‘Lost Ring Story’

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The House …

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This is the house of my childhood summers.

Awhile back I wrote about the house in a short, very short story (Click here to read it)

They say you can’t go home again.  I say, pish tosh, you can  but you won’t always find things have stayed the same as you remember.  Unless… you do !!

Years ago when I was driving past I saw a young woman on the porch.  Something made me stop the car and get out to speak with her.  She was pleasant and seemed interested when I said that more than 50 years ago I had spent all my summers there with my family.  We chatted for a bit and then she asked me if I’d like to come inside !

Would I ever.  But, was I prepared to step back into my childhood … would I be disappointed or pleased !  Even though the rooms had somehow become smaller the house was a lot like I had remembered it.

2305bedc7dda2f3cee16db1fe3ddfe060e0bdc8c I think I made the young woman feel at ease, and that I wasn’t some weirdo trying to check out the house when I mentioned the secret room to her.

Memories came rushing back like mini-tidal waves… it must have been the familiar smell of the house that evoked them.  They say the sense of smell is the strongest memory inducer and I agree.  The kitchen was pretty much the same, the original sink was still there.  The screen door out to the yard still creaked… I wonder if they’re deliberately ‘built in’ to screen doors!

I felt my heart quicken as I started up the stairs to the second floor where the bedrooms all were.  You know how sometimes you just know something great is going to happen.  It did.

The same exact wrought iron beds were STILL in the same bedrooms.  A-maz-ing, just really blew me away.  Wow.  As I headed down the hall to the room that had been mine I glanced into the bathroom… yup, clawfoot tub, slanted floor, low ceiling that my 6’2 father bumped his head on every single morning.

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Almost there!

I cannot believe how fast time is flying now, or busy I have been.

But in the past two(?) weeks, I have pretty much redone and switched around the three bedrooms in our house to make room for our (VERY) soon-to-be baby!

The room Ethan used to use is now the "grownup" bedroom. It is the room with the attic access, so I wanted to make sure we ended up in there:

mom & dad - new room

I had painted it a shocking blue for him when we moved in, but I thought John and I might benefit from something a little more soothing, so I mixed up a ton of paints I found in the basement and ended up with a lovely green.

mom & dad closet

All I did was toss our stuff in there for now -- some of it quite literally -- and I'll deal with putting it all away as soon as the kids' rooms are totally in order.

The boys moved into the former adult bedroom. The room was very bright and cheery for us, but just a cream color, and I wanted to do something extra special for the boys (especially since we were making them share a room after always having slept in their own spaces).

So I had them pick out some paint colors,

we picked out the colors for the boys' stripey walls today

And with a little masking tape and some careful rolling, the boring side walls of the room were transformed into personalized Happy Walls. :)

Noah's side:

noah's side

and Ethan's side:

ethan's side

I am so pleased with how it turned out (not too shabby for only a few hours of work in one evening!) and the boys LOVE their new space. Sleeping has been blissfully uninterrupted and they are already totally adjusted to the new arrangements.

Once their room was in at least partial working order, I started in on Lydia's room (formerly Noah's room).

I knew I wanted yellow, but I had been agonizing over shades for about a million years. After I found two I liked the best (both very different, but with qualities I admired for various reasons), I bought two of those little sample jars of paint and put two swatches on the wall, which stayed on there for another million years while I scrutinized both of them in every kind of natural and artificial light possible.

Why all the fuss over a silly shade of yellow? Well, painting with yellow can be positively disastrous.

See, I put a gorgeous yellow in the kitchen in the apartment John and I lived in around the time we got married (incidentally, that is my wedding bouquet in front of the wall in this picture):

wedding bouquet

Bold and rich, not too shocking, just warm and lovely. So when we moved to the house in Scranton a few years later, I couldn't wait to have a perfect yellow kitchen again!

I failed.

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It doesn't show in this picture, but the shade I picked was practically NEON in any kind of bright light, especially artificial -- you know, nighttime lighting when you need a day-glo nightmare to help you unwind for bedtime...

So I had indeed achieved my yellow kitchen again, but with none of the pesky tastefulness of the former kitchen. I eventually grew to like it, but would never ever ever ever have picked that shade again for any wall, no matter what, ever.

You can understand my fear of commitment here, yeah?

To wrap up a ridiculously long story, I stared at those swatches for weeks, memorized what I liked best about both of them and finally took the plunge Sunday.

By Monday, I was two coats of primer and one coat of paint in on Lydia's walls:

lydia's room in progress

Late Monday night, starting in on the second coat (just a gratuitous belly shot, really):

side view, painting Lydia's room

And as of yesterday afternoon:

crib!

glider!

tiny dresser makes a perfect changing table

What a PERFECT yellow!!! It is exactly what I was hoping for and I am beyond thrilled with the way the whole room is coming out. The color is soothing and buttery in all light, and is like heaven when the sun sets and shines through the slats of the blinds in the evening.

I have a lot of things I love in there, including my childhood dressers which I refinished when we were expecting Ethan, and the brand new crib and glider from my parents, but one of my favorite special touches is this switchplate that my parents saved from when I was little:

was mine when I was little :)

I like that it is the last thing I see as I leave the room.

I still have a lot of closet rearranging to do and laundry out the wazoo, but I have three weeks left to get that done and I think I can do it, unless someone decides on an early arrival. :)