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Calendar Girls

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Modeling for Breast Cancer Awareness…

Earlier this summer I took my nieces to Bella Intimates for a fitting, because I believe every young woman should know what a decent bra feels like rather than relying on what’s available at local box stores or places like Victoria’s Secret (who has notoriously bad fitting help). Mom came too, and my SIL stopped in as well.

The shop owner told us about a friend of hers who makes calendars for breast cancer awareness… He had this idea to do a multigenerational shoot to “start them young”, and so we were happy to help out. I’m not sure which of these he’ll use, but it was one of the two.
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…and then…

He told me about some idea he had, and I said Oh sure, I’d totally do that!

So, get your mammo, pay attention to your breasts, do your self exam, and don’t let them go the way of the dinosaurs…

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And remember, men can get breast cancer too.

If you haven’t seen these, The Scar Project is a powerful and moving series of photographs of women (maybe there’s a man, I forget). The photographs are stunning, beautiful, and a bit raw.

A little blog freshening-up

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This is one of those annoying posts where I ramble on about who-knows-what in between unrelated pictures, 'kay?

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I thought to myself the other day that it was probably time for a new header, so there's one up there. I am really very pleased with the new look.

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Then I ended up getting rid of most of what I had in the sidebar because I decided to try the tabs thing.

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I really like the tabs, and had been thinking about trying them for a while now.

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Two boys.

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But that's not why I switched to tabs. You see, I made this:

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That's whipped soap. Soap! And it is just the start of my slow and steady rebuilding of my soapy empire. So check out the "Soap" tab up top and tune in periodically to see what's on the curing racks. And for the utmost in soapy viewing pleasure, I made a little slideshow of some of my favorite soaps. It plays nonstop, forever, so pop in anytime.

More on the whipped soap soon!

Busy!

Family things and just generally existing have seemingly let me blow through several weeks here without even noticing.

The biggest thing would be my oldest gearing up for his first day of Kindergarten (more on this very soon, as the 27th is his first day!)

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Lydia has continued to grow bigger and older,

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And more in need of banjo.

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We cheered on Mr. Ambry in two different 10k runs, only two weeks apart (second one shown here),

John's 8/19/12 10K

John's 8/19/12 10K

We made our first ever batch of homemade sauerkraut:

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And the knitting.

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Ohhhh, the knitting...

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Rockefeller - Clue 3 almost done

starting clue 4!

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Still nowhere near done, but I think it will be a favorite when I finally finish!

The garden is huge and overgrown (but in a good way) and the tomatoes are still green but growing bigger by the minute. The basil is ready for a third cutting and smells so good when I even glance at it I could cry.

I have slowly started working in the attic again, now that the weather has finally started to cool off.

And a pile of studs waits in the basement to become the framework for some heavy duty shelving -- a HUGE step number one on my path of an organized home.

I have high hopes right now, I really do. By this time next year, I hope to have an attic studio for the grownups to utilize and enjoy, and for my basement storage system ideas to finally become reality.

And now I must force myself to sleep so I can see my biggest boy off in the morning. He is so excited, and we are too!


Chap-A-Versary …

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This is Chappy on Aug 25, 2001… we had just picked him up from the breeder in western PA and were starting our 6 hour drive  home to NJ.

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This is Chappy today Aug 25, 2012.  Grew up nice didn’t he :)


Memories of Past Illumination Nights …

Upcoming Illumination Night is Wed, Aug 15, 2012. It has always been my favorite event of the summer

Going to Illumination Night is a thrill for me no matter my age.

I think I was 2 and 1/2 the first time I went, I’m embarrassed to say that even with my annoyingly good memory, I don’t remember it. My first memory of Illumination Night involves wearing a particularly pretty dress so I’m thinking I was around three or four.

My dad, mom, god-mother and I would have an early supper and then walk to the Campground. My dad and I would stroll around looking at all the beautifully decorated gingerbread houses while my mother and god-mother would chat with friends and relatives.

At 8 o’clock the Vineyard Haven Band would begin playing and the always fun community sing would start. Patriotic songs like, America The Beautiful, Yankee Doodle, Battle Hymn of the Republic are always stirring and emotional. It took me a couple of years to learn the words to all the songs and I still get messed up on a couple of the rounds like John Brown’s Baby. The band playing the Star Spangled Banner and the rousing Stars and Stripes Forever are always crowd pleasers.

But as much fun as that was it was only a precursor to the main event. The Tabernacle and Campground go dark… the crowd cheers. The lighting of the first lantern and then all the gingerbread houses are simoutaneously aglow with Japanese lanterns. Everyone oohs and ahhs and stream out of the Tabernacle to walk through the magical fairyland the Campground has become. My dad would carry me on his shoulders so I could see everything… I felt like I could touch the stars.

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After seeing all there was to see we’d head out onto Circuit Ave to either the Frosty Cottage for ice cream or Darling’s for popcorn. Always a tasty ending to a perfectly enchanting night.

Like I said, no matter your age, Illumination Night is fun for everyone. Just look at these faces from 1998…

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Links.

Martha’s Vineyard Campmeeting Association

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Everything again?

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Can't seem to get enough of one sort of thing done around here to have a post that makes sense, so here's everything I guess.

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That was my first "pesto garden" harvest a while back. My Memmy gave me a still-in-the-box food processor that she never used (her old one is still kickin' and then somebody gave her this one for whatever reason and it just sat around). Anyway, what? Oh yeah. I chopped up those piles of goodness and smooshed them into a little bitty container and stuck them in the freezer.

And now I'm ready to do it all over again.

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I just wish my 'maters were as fruitful (literally).

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They got nice and big, but are just now really blossoming and I've had very little fruit so far.

Ah well. At least we've been finally getting a little rain here and there.

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Our area was/is not in drought, but it still had been so dry for so long.

A nice thing:

real eggs

Even though we are not allowed to keep chickens in our borough (and honestly? I don't have the energy or money for them at this point in my life anyway), we have plenty of local sources for fresh eggs, and my neighbor Linda surprised me with a dozen the other week. Of course, we had already devoured half of them before I managed to get a picture.

Now. Remember this?

the $20 former kitchen hutch is slowly getting a makeover

I finally picked a paint color and put a better back on it:

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$20 hutch - finally repainted

Hooray! Now I love it again!

And speaking of loving things again... The mystery shawl from my last post? It got weird.

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It's hard to explain -- no wait, let me rephrase this. It's actually very easy to explain, and at some length too, but I will not bore you. Basically, the design of the shawl in the second clue proved to be something that I feel does not benefit from a self striping yarn and is much better served by a solid, tweed, or very slightly variegated yarn instead.

Luckily, I had these already on hand.

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The brown and tan is undyed alpaca from Ideuma Creek (the ball's worth was purchased at Rhinebeck and the two cakes were purchased online much later), and the white is Juniper Moon Farm cormo that I grabbed on sale a few months back. They are both so soft! And knitting up beautifully together.

"Wool-paca-feller"

Because the pattern name is "Rockefeller" and my yarns are now alpaca and wool, I have dubbed mine, "Wool-paca-feller." ... Isn't it sad that I amuse myself so.

Now some cute things:

the whole family: dashboard version

A few years ago, my friend gave me the Little Miss figurine on the far left for no particular reason except that she was cute. After a while, I got the bright idea to affix her to my dashboard with a little adhesive square; sort of a fun little mascot for our trips. Fast forward a bit and the same friend sent me the pipe smoking bobble headed Pappy in the center, so I stuck him up there too, joking that the little figures were Mr. Ambry and me. This fabulous idea then sent me on a quest to find figures to represent the kids too.

A little while after that, my friend Michele sent us some wonderful baby gifts and just happened to stick that little Kewpie doll on the outside of the package, and I practically bolted out to the car to stick it in its place. All I needed were the boys and after several failed attempts to find the Blockheads from Gumby in an appropriate size, I settled on Mario and Luigi. Even though I am not a gamer, the boys love them, so that's that.

And now, every time we get in the car we have to smile at our little dashboard family up there. :)

Also cute was this terrified leaf friend that John found outside the other day:

Oh noes! :0

Still with me?

I am going to attempt to pickle some things this week. I have dabbled in canning in the past, but not much, and I have never pickled, so this might prove to be horrible. Or not. We'll see.

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I mixed coriander, allspice, cloves, turmeric, celery seed, yellow mustard seeds, bay leaves, cinnamon sticks, and mixed peppercorns in there and it smells quite delightful. I have a bunch of dill in the freezer and must grab some garlic, and then I can do half batches of each item in spice blend thinger and also in garlicky dill.

Believe it or not, I could keep talking indefinitely, but I have decided to cut myself off here. Cross your fingers for cooler weather so I can get up in the attic really soon and have a real project to share again!

Vacation, all I ever wanted

Last weekend we hopped in the car and off we went -- destination Cape Cod!

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Don't worry, Ian didn't drive the entire way.

The last time we took a proper vacation was the year before Ian was born, so we were long overdue. We opted for the big-ass family vacation -- the three of us plus Jim's mom and aunt, and his brother and sister and their spouses, all sharing a house in Brewster -- and it was awesome.  

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This was Ian's first time at the beach. He was a little wary of the water (these days, he's not even really a fan of the bathtub, so that was not at all unexpected) but otherwise loved it.  Which was good -- for weeks, every time we mentioned going to the beach he would solemnly say, "no, Ian stay home."  We have no idea why he was so convinced that he wanted to stay home, but in the end the promise of getting to play in the sand and wear his beloved baby suit (that would be "bathing suit" to the rest of you) was enough to convince him.

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After a couple of hours, he owned the place. He wouldn't go near the water on his own -- the above picture is one of the very few times he let his feet touch it at all -- but he was happy to wander around in the dry sand and play.

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I love the beach and have such happy memories of all my beach vacations as a kid. It was awesome to see it through Ian's eyes. It'll only get more fun from here, too.

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We had a bit of a setback, as Ian had a fever for a couple of days so he and I had to stay cooped up at the house, but thankfully it never progressed to the point of needing medical attention, and the rest of the time was awesome.  We ate lobster and steamers and mussels, and poked around shops, and saw lots of Angry Birds (all birds are "A-bee Burns", as far as Ian is concerned, you see), and had a nice dinner in Wellfleet for our anniversary, and rode our bikes, and visited the docks in Hyannis so Ian could see all the boats...

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...and we were in Provincetown for an awesome thunderstorm on Wednesday. (I took, literally, about 250 shots of the same scene, hoping for a good lightning shot. I was just about to give up when BAM. Finally. Not bad for taking a picture from the window of a car without benefit of a tripod.)

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It was such a wonderful week, full of fun and family (and yes, we managed to have nine people crammed into a little house without one bit of drama. I think we deserve a medal.)  The only problem was that it wasn't long enough. I've already made the executive decision that next year we're going for TWO weeks.

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Boston fun

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We had a really nice time in Boston celebrating Jason’s birthday. We stopped at Penzey’s in Arlington on our way in yesterday because I had a gift certificate that wasn’t working online. We had lunch at Neptune’s and it was well worth the wait. We had time to wander the North End, passing by Paul Revere’s house and taking a stroll through the Haymarket. There was just enough time after lunch to grab a cannoli at Modern Pastry. I know Mike’s gets more buzz but Modern fills your cannoli right then and there so the shell stays wonderfully crispy and they do my favorite ricotta filling.Then it was time for a quick change at the hotel and we were off to see Cirque du Soleil’s Totem. It was a very enjoyable show and fun to be right up front where we could see things up close and personal. We finished off the night with dinner at our favorite restaurant, Hammersley’s Bistro. On our way out this morning we stopped at Lyndell’s which has replaced our old favorite, Carberry’s. I have to say, Lyndell’s was even better. The cinnamon swirl is to die for, sort of like a croissant in a cupcake shape with cinnamon sugar between the layers- buttery and not overly sweet.

More photos are available here.

I hate to say, "I have nothing to say," but…

I always think I don't when I start a post like this.

But then, as usual, I am lying. I have a thousand million and one things to say. Like, Opinions! with capital Os and possibly numerous exclamation points.

Opinions! on handmade, and how much is enough/too much, and at what point one should cool the heck down and give themselves permission to not do everything. Along with that, there are the Opinions!! on DIY, and how, frankly, some of it gets a bit ridiculous and ends up wasting so much time and energy it is not actually worth your while, you know?

There are BIG Opinions!!! on starting to raise a daughter, and the new fears and ideas and methods swirling around in my head, and how all of this brings up so many fears and questions about how I've raised my boys thus far, and how I will continue in the future.

Here's the thing. As much as I really enjoy hearing myself spew out revelations like that navel-gazing, early 20s depressive who just finished an elective psych course (what? we all have our awkward stages...), I think I'll pass this time.

The most important things: I want to live my life as freely as I can. I want to be happy. I want to raise my kids as competently as possible, and I would like to have a sturdy roof over our heads, and plenty of food in our bellies. Whatever choices I make to get us there are mine to make, and mine alone. None of us should have to justify decisions we make for the good of our families, but we all feel that we must more often than not, especially in this age of social media. We have a LOT to measure up to nowadays. We hear and see what our peers are doing at all times. We have constant access to the creations and even homes of those we admire. And you know what? It gets to be too much. I stepped away from Pinterest these past few weeks because it made me hate almost every photograph I have ever taken. It made me feel like the laziest slacker of a gardener/homemaker/wife/mother -- you name it, I probably am pretty lousy at it when measured up to all those lovely pins.

When measured. I needed to step back and stop comparing for a little so I could learn to love and admire me again.

And that's that.

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But you know? I'd be remiss in my obsessed mom duties if I were to leave without some current pictures of the littlest one...

A few nights ago:

mommy made a headband

mommy made a headband

And today:

2 months!!!

Next up is probably a boring knitting post, so get yourselves all geared up for no excitement there!