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The House …

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This is the house of my childhood summers.

Awhile back I wrote about the house in a short, very short story (Click here to read it)

They say you can’t go home again.  I say, pish tosh, you can  but you won’t always find things have stayed the same as you remember.  Unless… you do !!

Years ago when I was driving past I saw a young woman on the porch.  Something made me stop the car and get out to speak with her.  She was pleasant and seemed interested when I said that more than 50 years ago I had spent all my summers there with my family.  We chatted for a bit and then she asked me if I’d like to come inside !

Would I ever.  But, was I prepared to step back into my childhood … would I be disappointed or pleased !  Even though the rooms had somehow become smaller the house was a lot like I had remembered it.

2305bedc7dda2f3cee16db1fe3ddfe060e0bdc8c I think I made the young woman feel at ease, and that I wasn’t some weirdo trying to check out the house when I mentioned the secret room to her.

Memories came rushing back like mini-tidal waves… it must have been the familiar smell of the house that evoked them.  They say the sense of smell is the strongest memory inducer and I agree.  The kitchen was pretty much the same, the original sink was still there.  The screen door out to the yard still creaked… I wonder if they’re deliberately ‘built in’ to screen doors!

I felt my heart quicken as I started up the stairs to the second floor where the bedrooms all were.  You know how sometimes you just know something great is going to happen.  It did.

The same exact wrought iron beds were STILL in the same bedrooms.  A-maz-ing, just really blew me away.  Wow.  As I headed down the hall to the room that had been mine I glanced into the bathroom… yup, clawfoot tub, slanted floor, low ceiling that my 6’2 father bumped his head on every single morning.

212c7845900ff8467b417a717874f37ad880cf54 My room was at the back of the house just off the upstairs back porch.  It was small, only room for a twin size bed, a small dresser and a chair but lots of room for dreaming and thinking about the future.

94738debeb102a376bc734f12d1918897fdda553 The stairs are where I learned to go up and down one foot after the other, not one foot at a time like a little kid.

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MV Obsessions …

MV Obsession is four and a half years old and I’ve never done a post about my obsessive rituals and quirky have-to-dos.   So here it is.

100_0830  I HAVE to wear something Vineyard related every day.  I’ve been wearing this watch since 1995.  But sometimes, like today, I like to wear…

100_0835 … a Vineyard shirt.

100_0857 I’ve had a Vineyard related license plate on my New Jersey car since 1993.

100_0829And since 1988 I’ve been carrying this stone from State Beach in my wallet.

Those are just my quirks when I’m not on the Vineyard.  When I’m on the Vineyard I have other rituals and compulsions, here are a few of them.

100_8259  Espresso Love’s blueberry scones.  I love them so much I bring them home, put them in my freezer and sometimes,  just sometimes offer them to other people.  Espresso Love coffee is of course a must to go with the scones.  (CLICK HERE)

100_8695  The Tabernacle.  I love this place.  No visit is complete without visiting this hallowed place and doing a bit of reflecting… and always taking ‘just one more picture’  because, well, I’m obsessed. (CLICK HERE)

101_3573 The Bandstand in Ocean Park is one of my favorite places to sit and enjoy just being.  I’ve been known to take ‘just one more picture’ here too. (CLICK HERE)

100_0844 The house my godparents owned.  I spent every summer of my childhood here and I always, always drive past it at least twice when I’m on MV.  One time years ago I was fortunate enough to step back into the house and step back in time.

101_3481 Heading Up-Island now.  Almost every trip includes a visit to the Gay Head cliffs.  No matter how many times I see them they always take my breath away. (CLICK HERE)

100_0840100_6307 When our dog Chappy visits the Vineyard he has his own ‘must visit’ places.  The Black Dog for their droolicious biscuits.  Good Dog Good for their goodies as well, and to visit the ladies there who always remember him. (CLICK HERE) and (HERE)

 All my obsessions, quirks and rituals are not necessarily Vineyard related though.  I’ll admit to one that makes my family chuckle every time I do it.  100_0860I have to end up on my right foot going up or down stairs… stepping on or off curbs… putting on shoes and socks.

Now that you know my obsessions let me hear from you about yours.


Forks And Friendships …

 My friend Will Jones and I were always looking for things to keep us busy and out of trouble during our summers on MV.  Someone showed me how to make little flowers by using yarn and forks… I immediately showed Will.   We set about our tasks, me at my house, he at his.

The next morning Will’s mom called my mom asking if he was at my house ?  Seems she went looking for a fork and couldn’t find any !!!  A few moment later Will was at my door, and yes, he had all his mother’s forks with him and they were filled with yarn.  Seems I had neglected to show him how to get the yarn off the forks to make the little flowers…

                  

 Will had carried those forks from his house way on the other side of Oak Bluffs …

  up Circuit Ave …

 … to my house where we freed his mother’s forks of their yarn.  I have no recollection of what we did with the yarn flowers.
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(Will’s mom – my mom)

Our moms were childhood friends, as were Will and I.  Our moms graduated from Oak Bluffs High School together (long before the regional high school was built).  Our moms moved to Newark, NJ after graduation and it was there that they met their future husbands, our dads, who were also childhood friends. ( In 1907 Will’s mom, Bertha Carter, was the first child born in Oak Bluffs after its name change from Cottage City.)

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(my dad – Will’s dad)

Will and I spent every day of the summer together. We went swimming, rode the Flying Horses, read, drove our parents crazy and were inseparable. For many years his parents owned a bowling alley in Oak Bluffs across from the Flying Horses.  Long before automation the pins had to be set by hand, I even did it from time to time myself.

Being a summer kid on the Vineyard was the best thing in the world… it still is.

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Will is older than I am by 18 days and I never let him forget it.  We still see each other from time to time and talk a lot about our childhoods on the Vineyard.


Mom’s And Mine …

My mother did these two counted cross stitches over 80 years ago.

Gay Head Lighthouse still had the lightkeepers house attached to it.

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Only 4 lighthouses instead of 5 on the Vineyard map – do you know which one is missing?

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My counted cross stitch of Gay Head lighthouse done in 2004.

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Vineyard map done in 1993… my first of 11.

100_0659CLICK HERE to read the post I did about our two Vineyard maps.